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Fear of the unknown makes me feel afraid… I suppose fear is integrated into all of us for survival. But, taking the risk is why we left the cave… There was safety in the cave, but it was not survival because there was no thriving as a species. It is the cliche “No risk. No…
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My father passed away April 25, 2007 in his sleep due to what we think was heart failure. In his passing, he left behind a three bedroom home he owned since the 70s. We went to clear his home and next to the recliner he sat in every morning and evening to do his cross…
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My husband is having an affair. My husband is an alcoholic and this torrid love affair is with booze. I tell myself “This is the guy you married.” However, let’s be fair – I fell in love with a 22 year old and when we married two years later I was pregnant with our first…
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Mom, I am writing you this letter because I feel like it will be the best way to express everything I want to say to you. I hate conflict and I don’t want to harbor this anger and resentment forever. I guess I didn’t realize how much anger I was carrying until recently. I am…
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The mirror is a tool we use daily to transform ourselves from the mess we wake up as, to the person we want to present to the world. The mirror is simply a tool to shield our egos from the outside world. There, you become someone you feel better about. We use the mirror to…
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Webster defines friendship in many ways. The one that stands out the most to me is one attached to another by affection or esteem. Over the years, it is crazy to look back at all the friendships I have shared with so many people. I have shared a friendship with people from so many walks…
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A good friend of mine once told me ‘you know you are beautiful, and a lot of people say that gay men don’t like women.’ He said, “The truth is that a gay man can look at a beautiful woman and respect her for that.” It feels good to hear that you are beautiful, and…